The simplest definition is that colour is the vibration of light energy. It has been proven over many years that colour affects emotions, moods, health, wellbeing, spiritual awareness and the mind at conscious and subconscious levels. A series of grey overcast days subdues the spirit of most people. When sunshine and blue skies appear again, [...]
Your sensuality is obvious in the touching behaviour you show your new partner. Follow the normal rules of touching safe areas of the body such as arms, hands, elbows and shoulders. Perhaps touching is difficult for you. Have courage. Most men and women don’t get enough touching in their adult life, although we all need [...]
Now this is a loaded question. Perhaps it is time to look at your previous sexual history and behaviour so you can be better prepared for bed in this new relationship. And now, the million dollar question: what is your objective, your purpose, your aim with your new partner? If it is merely to have [...]
It’s amazing how many men and women ensure rejection by their choice of behaviours on a first date. Here are some dating turn-offs to avoid : FOR WOMEN * stop talking about personal or work problems » stop criticising ex-boyfriends or husbands * don’t appear too keen * don’t tell him you could fall in [...]
They had agreed to meet at a coffee shop after he answered her personal advertisement in a newspaper. On the telephone they seemed to have a lot in common. She thought he sounded intelligent, friendly and approachable. She knew what to wear for this first important meeting. She knew that dressy casual would give the [...]
Dysthymia, a term coined in the 1980s for minor depression, was previously known in the 1950s as depressive neurosis and in the 1970s as depressive personality. It is a mild but persistent form of depression that afflicts at least 2 to 3 million people. According to the DSM-IV criteria, a diagnosis of dysthymia requires a [...]
A group of women were asked what they thought a man might learn about female sexuality if he were to switch places with them for a while … to become a woman for a time. Their answers’ were direct and revealing. ‘He’d learn how good it feels to warm up slowly, to really take time [...]
Breastfeeding raises some emotional dilemmas too.. Some men are heavily erotically focused on the breasts and may feel as though their partner’s breasts are theirs for sex. Some women report their partners putting pressure on them to stop breastfeeding because they don’t like the competition. Another reason some men have problems with their partner breastfeeding [...]
The first step in fertility testing is a sperm count, which is produced by masturbation. Coming up with sperm on demand is not as easy as it may sound. Even men who are accustomed to masturbating say they find it difficult to get in the mood in a hospital clinic room, despite the help of [...]
When it comes to acceptability, society seems to have a hierarchy of relationships with longterm monogamous commitment the winner by a country mile. The serial monogamist is next in line followed by those people who have more than one partner at a time. People who choose to remain single remain an enigma. Diane is a [...]