“He thinks I’m too fat. Can I ever be sexually attractive to him like this? I just don’t think I can ever keep much of this weight off.”

ANSWER: The range of healthy weight seems to be much wider than once thought, and general health, not sexual attractiveness, should be the determinant of weight. One important super marital sex rule is that arousal comes from within, not without. We are all responsible for our own arousal and appearance. To. blame our partner for our own sexual feelings only blocks progress toward total personal and sexual health. A rose is a prickly, thorny, smelly, red thing that blooms only sometimes and is overpriced in flower stores. It can also be a symbol of love, a beautiful, soft, perfumed living symbol to be purchased for what it means, not just for what it costs. As has been said, all perception is mere hypothesis. Super marriage provides the opportunity for developing a hypothesis beyond the physical appearance. The more we look at bodies, the less we see the interaction and the system itself. It is important in super marital sex to be the partner you would like to be married to, and to be that partner in every way, including but not limited to the physical appearance.

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